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Book Review: The Promise of Despair by Andrew Root

By Matt · Comments (0)
Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

Quite the title, isn’t it? Yes, The Promise of Despair: The Way of the Cross as the Way of the Church by Andrew Root has quite the suggestive title, but that is part of the point. This is a book about death, in both a literal and symbolic sense. Death is not limited to people physically dying, but is also present when we lose a job, are debilitated by illness, or a slave to addiction. Death lurks all around us. Root contends that the church usually tries to avoid death, but that a true church can only be found in the midst of death, by facing it and owning up to it because we worship a God who also can be found in death, facing it, and not turning and looking the other way: “Christian faith is a faith that has as its central event the cross, the reality of death” (xxvii).

In a way, this book is a kind of practical theodicy. It does not so much answer the question Why is there evil, pain and suffering in the world? as much as it tries to answer What does the church do about evil, pain and suffering in the world? For Root the source of pain and suffering is the “monster” of death, and he carries this personification of death as a monster throughout the whole book.

The book is divided into two parts. The first sets the groundwork regarding our current cultural situation, an environment where we must deal with things like the death of meaning, authority, and identity. Although postmodernism seems like a topic that is starting to become overhyped, Root gives one of the most succinct and philosophically robust accounts of the current postmodern landscape. The first part of the book functions well as a primer on postmodernism. Friedrich Nietzsche, Jean Baudrillard, and Anthony Giddens are some of the philosophers who weigh heavily in these discussion.

On of the best chapters in the book, especially for youth ministry, is the final chapter in Part One that deals with the death of identity. In this chapter Root explains how identity used to be formed by work and love: what one did for a living and one’s family. Today, he says, identity is defined by consumption and intimacy. It is no longer what we do or produce that form us, but what we have and consume. Root defines intimacy as “feelings of closeness” (60) as opposed to love, which is a commitment. In youth ministry, where we are dealing with adolescents constructing their own identities, this chapter has much for us to ponder.

Part Two outlines the reasons why the church must face the reality of death and enter into it as a central practice. He draws from Luther’s theology of the cross, arguing that the God of the Bible is encountered in Jesus Christ on the cross: “The church is the community that seeks to live from the new order–not from life to death, but from death to life” (88). When the church faces death, the church faces reality. The church must be with people in death because we are a people who hope in a future when death will be no more; we are a people moving from death to life. This hope that the church can offer to those in the midst of death is not to be confused with optimism:

The problem with an optimistic church is that it spends all its energy on creating optimistic artificial light, seeking to pull people who know so well the darkness into faux light. An optimistic church seeks to cover the darkness. But the church of the cross seeks to make its life in what is, in darkness, hoping for the day when darkness is no longer covered but is overcome completely by the dawn of God’s future. (147)

It should be noted that Root is not speaking about death in the popular sense of “dying to self.” Instead, he is speaking more about passages like Galatians 6:2: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” In fact, he uses the word sacramental to suggest that God is particularly present in a special way, conveying his grace, when we encounter someone else in their despair. If this is the case, then the church should not shy away from ministering to those facing the monster of death in their lives.

Though this book is a weighty book simply because of the subject matter, it is a fairly concise and accessible book (160 pages or so). And while I think that Root might be a bit repetitive at times, this is such a unique book that there is no where else to go for a treatment of this subject. For Christians and church leaders trying to lead lives and churches where we deal with people’s lives in reality (and not in an idealized state), this book is a must-read.

For another review, see Jake Bouma’s review of the book in the American Theological Inquiry .

Disclaimer: This book was provided as a review copy free of charge from the publisher.

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Categories : Book Reviews, Theology
Tags : Andrew Root, death, despair, Luther, theology of the cross

Health Care and a Theology of Death

By Matt · Comments (1)
Friday, September 4th, 2009
Perhaps it is healthier to be prepared for death and die younger than it is to be afraid of death and constantly try to delay the inevitable.

I’ve been trying to keep up with the health care debate since it is a pretty big issue, and there’s been one tactic that has me a bit worried. It seems that both sides are obsessed with extending a person’s lifespan:

  • Democrats, including President Obama, cite the average lifespan of Americans compared to other nations, saying that we need to make changes in order to live longer.
  • Republicans are using the term “death panels” to describe end-of-life counseling, with the assumption that any sort of end-of-life counseling that leads someone to decide to decline any sort of care and die at a younger age would be a bad thing.

We desperately need a theology of death. So, please take this theologically, not politically.

Health care should be about more than extending life; it needs as its goal to increase the quality of life. “My Old Lady” is one of my favorite episodes of the TV show Scrubs because it deals so well with the topic of death, especially with the “old lady” character. I’ve put Part 2 of that episode below, because it deals with the most pertinent part of the show (you can also view Part 1 and Part 3).

Money quote from this episode (occurs at 1:21 in the above clip):

J.D. (Doctor): “So, that’s basically it. Your kidneys aren’t responding to the medication anymore. I’m afraid we’re gonna have to start you on dialysis.”

Mrs. Tanner: “Oh, I’m not a big fan of dialysis.”

J.D.: “Yeah, unfortunately we don’t really have a choice.”

Mrs. Tanner: “Well, actually, I do have a choice.”

J.D looks confused.

J.D.’s In-head Narration: Certain things you never expect to come out of a person’s mouth.

Mrs. Tanner: “I think I’m ready to die.”

Now, I’m not advocating that people should die just to save money on health care costs. But I am saying that people’s lives should not always be extended at all costs. Yes, the individual person is the one who ultimately needs to be making that decision, but we as a culture do need to help people be prepared for death. Perhaps it is healthier to be prepared for death and die younger than it is to be afraid of death and constantly try to delay the inevitable.

Both sides need to own up to the fact that death is a part of life. Neither side needs to be scaring people by using death to persuade others that their form of health care will keep people alive longer.

The church should be in the death business because we worship a God who is in the resurrection business.

What if part of the health care debate is getting people ready to die? Yet again, we see a point where churches can step in and offer our culture the proper perspective rather than turning over our responsibility to one political party or another. The church should be in the death business because we worship a God who is in the resurrection business. May we help our country develop a proper theology of death and reorient the health care debate.

[For further thoughts, go here to listen to Stanley Hauerwas on medicine, death, and the Christian community. Also, if you were looking for a practical solution, sorry, I don't have one. Instead, go see Adam McLane's idea for fixing health care.]

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Categories : News, Theology
Tags : death, death panels, democrats, healthcare, obama, republicans

A Maundy Thursday Meditation: Praying with Jesus in the Garden

By Matt · Comments (0)
Saturday, April 11th, 2009

One of the last pieces of our youth Maundy Thursday worship service. Prayer seems like an appropriate thing to do on this Holy Saturday.

After washing the disciples feet, after eating the Last Supper, Jesus finds himself in the Garden of Gethsemane, doing what he often does: praying. He prays for us, his disciples, knowing that the road we will have to travel will, like his road, be a difficult one. That Jesus prays for our protection implies that we will face danger. He knows that we will be called to follow him in death.

As we are called to walk the road which Jesus walked, we are also called to be people who often find ourselves in prayer. Prayer, like the washing of feet and the receiving of communion, is also an act that forces us to die to ourselves. When we pray, we acknowledge that we are not in control. When we pray, we cannot lie, we cannot deceive, we cannot position ourselves for power or status, but we are laid bare as we come to our Maker. In a world where people manipulate one another for selfish interests, prayer is perhaps the only place where we are unable to manipulate someone else. We are utterly powerless in prayer to make ourselves out to be anything other than what we already are. In prayer the masks we wear come off and the real person underneath begins to emerge. In biblical terms, prayer is the death of the old self and the rising of the new creation.

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Categories : Christianity, Youth Ministry
Tags : death, gethsemane, maundy thursday, prayer

A Maundy Thursday Meditation: The Last Supper

By Matt · Comments (0)
Friday, April 10th, 2009

This is another part of our worship service from last night regarding the Last Supper. It seems fitting on this Good Friday.

On this night we remember the meal that Jesus gave us, the meal that we celebrate every week. A piece of bread, a sip of wine. This is the body and blood of Christ. The apostle Paul tells us that in this meal we “proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes.” This meal is a proclamation of death.

But it, like the foot washing, is also an act of dying to ourselves. Jesus tells us that the road he traveled is the road we must travel. The cross he bore is also our cross. The death he died is also our death. “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me,” Jesus says. The weekly act of receiving communion is a part of taking up that cross and dying to ourselves. Weekly we are reminded that we are in need of the body and blood of Christ in order to forgive our sinful selves. We come to the altar, and kneel, lowering ourselves to our knees. This position is one of penitence and humility. Such a position forces us to die to ourselves. We put out our hands while we are on our knees, almost as a beggar, knowing that we are undeserving of the grace we are about to receive, and yet knowing that this grace is our only hope. In this act of receiving the body and blood of Christ our pride is stripped away as we come to the altar and ask for forgiveness.

This meal is not to be only a weekly occurrence of humbling ourselves. No, this meal reminds us that we should always be on our knees, always acting in humility, always aware that we are creatures in need of God’s grace. This meal does not end our week, but begins it. We begin the week on our knees, in submission to our Lord.

This meal is a reminder of the cross that Jesus bore, but it should also remind us that we are called to always die to ourselves, to always be in a position to be receptive to God’s grace, to “Take up our cross,” as Jesus said.

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Categories : Christianity, Youth Ministry
Tags : death, last supper, maundy thursday

A Maundy Thursday Meditation: Washing One Another's Feet

By Matt · Comments (0)
Thursday, April 9th, 2009

I wrote the following for a portion of our youth’s Maundy Thursday worship service. We based the service off of Bonhoeffers famous quote, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” We tried as best we could to make the worship service feel like a funeral and tried to tie in the theme of death to the acts usually highlighted on Maundy Thursday.

The first of the acts of Maundy Thursday has an obvious connection to dying to oneself. Most of us have heard the significance of what Jesus did on that night as he washed the disciples’ feet. Peter knew–he tried to refuse to let Jesus lower himself to the status of the lowliest of servants. Only if Jesus had already died to himself, and rejected the seduction of power and status in his culture, only then would he be able to take a towel, wrap it around his waist, and wash the feet of his disciples, his followers, his friends. The act of washing another’s feet required a dying to oneself in order to be able to complete the task.

But an interesting shift has occurred since Jesus’ day. In the biblical story it is Jesus who must empty himself in order to wash the disciples’ feet. The disciples would have been comfortable letting another person touch and wash their feet. It was a common custom, not out of the ordinary.

Today this is no longer the case. The modern day practice of foot washing in our culture requires discomfort by both parties. Not only must the person washing another’s feet lower oneself to a place of servant hood, but the person whose feet are being washed must bear his or her feet to another. This is not something we tend to do. We like our shoes, our flip flops, and our distance. Oftentimes the only person who sees, nevertheless touches, our feet is a parent or a spouse. To take off one’s shoes and to allow another to touch one’s feet in today’s culture requires a stripping away of pride; it requires a dying to oneself.

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Categories : Christianity, Youth Ministry
Tags : bonhoeffer, death, foot washing, maundy thursday

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