As far as an introductory text for people mired within a modernistic style of ministry, I think it still fits the bill. For people who are familiar with the postmodern landscape, emergent and missional ecclesiologies, and are theologically grounded there are probably better places for people to spend their time.

I wonder what Tony thinks of it now, because it seems like his theology has evolved considerably since writing this book. But, maybe not.

as for which… i’m not sure.

i’ve enjoyed rehashing what i’ve learned in reviving ophelia and queenbees and wannabes, but those are focused on female development (though not exclusively.)

or perhaps something by david elkind, I haven’t exhausted his contribution to the pyschological development of children, but i have always walked away from his books with a deeper understanding of child development.

i also (perhaps sadistically) enjoyed hara estroff marano’s nation of wimps. it is more of a cultural commentary on psycho-social development, and could read like a horror story, but in reflection has encouraged me to broaden my educational techniques.

i think the middle school ministry handbook by oestreicher & rubin has a few good chapters on the subject for middle schoolers.